It Takes An Incredible Team To Make Incredible Connections
If you’re like most singles today, you’ve signed up for several dating apps at some point... only to discover they simply aren’t working to attract the quality of matches you want to meet.
You’ve likely even tried chatting up people you cross paths with in your daily life… but who does that anymore? (Heck, half the women at the bar seem to prefer swiping over being approached nowadays.)
Maybe you’ve been set up by friends or perhaps even hired an expensive local matchmaker... only to be reminded of how much you hate being stuck on a long blind date with someone who’s just not your type.
No matter what frustrations you’ve experienced in the past, the team here at VIDA Select will make dating enjoyable again.

Meet Your Dream Team Of Dedicated Matchmakers Who Will Set You Up With Your Perfect Match:
Scott, Founder & CEO
'The Visionary'
Scott is the Founder and President of VIDA Select. Since 2009, he’s been hard at work taking VIDA Select’s systems, strategies, and success rate to the next level. Helping people get the dates of their dreams online is his greatest passion, and he’s recognized by the media as one of the world’s foremost online dating experts. Until meeting his ideal partner on OkCupid, Scott was one of VIDA Select’s most loyal customers.
Ally, Director Of Matchmaking
'The Soulmate Specialist'
A romantic at heart, Ally loves helping VIDA Select’s clients find their soulmates. She’s got a special knack for figuring out what type of special someone would make them happiest, and is so good at matchmaking she oversees the entire department! In her spare time, she loves planning date nights with her fiancé or hitting the gym. Luckily, it has a daycare for her 2 rambunctious sons, ages 3 and 5. Having boys opened up a whole new world for her, since she grew up with all sisters. Now with a 3:1 male to female ratio in her home, she feels a little outnumbered from time to time.
Rosalia, Client Success Manager
'The Miracle Worker'
One of VIDA Select’s most experienced matchmakers, Rosalia is adept at working with people of all different ages, cultures, and backgrounds thanks to her extensive travels. A veteran online dater herself, she’s the go-to matchmaker among her circle of friends and consistently has one of VIDA Select’s highest success rates when it comes to getting clients into relationships.
Guille, Chief Data Officer
'The Number Cruncher'
Guille is VIDA Select’s resident data scientist. With a Master’s in Big Data, he has done extensive work in a variety of industries, including tech, finance, education and now online dating. His passion for crunching numbers and interpreting large amounts of data largely accounts for the soaring success rates that VIDA Select clients enjoy today.
Cat, Chief Operating Officer
"VIDA's OG"
Cat’s passion for matchmaking and connecting people via modern dating outlets has kept her at VIDA since 2010. A matchmaker for years, she also managed the matchmaking team before becoming VIDA’s General Manager, and now the COO. Cat excels at building and shaping VIDA’s core teams, and searches far and wide to find the best people to manage them. She’s also lived all over the world, which gives her a unique understanding of dating in different areas. Cat is passionate about raising her three bilingual children, living a healthy and natural lifestyle and exploring the outdoors locally and across the globe.
Meagan, Director Of Operations
"Jack Of All Trades"
With a Master’s in organizational leadership, Meagan leads and inspires VIDA’s entire team. A true dating expert, she ensures VIDA stays on the forefront of matchmaking, using the best sites, apps, and technology for VIDA’s clients. She’s dedicated to helping men and women find their ‘someone special,’ and especially enjoys keeping up with clients after they have found The One through VIDA.
Maithreyi, HR Director
"The People Person"
With an MBA in Human Resources and 15 years of corporate experience, Maithreyi is a valuable asset to VIDA’s team. She loves being connected to co-workers all over the world who are dedicated to the common goal of helping people find love. Maithreyi speaks 6 different languages, and enjoys DIY interior decorating projects, dancing, and reading fantasy fiction. An avid traveler, she looks forward to her yearly beach vacation with her family.
Stacy, Matchmaking Manager
"The Hyper-Communicator"
Armed with a bright social personality and a cheerful disposition, Stacy spends her days ensuring our clients are getting the most out of our service. She supports the Matchmaking team, and focuses on strategy and results. With her natural talent for “getting” people and her extensive background in sales and marketing, Stacy spent years as a Matchmaker before moving into a management position. In her spare time, she helps out her husband with his small business, runs around minding her beloved kiddos and keeps the household going. She also somehow finds time to volunteer for Meals on Wheels and keep up with a large group of friends, whom she sees regularly and invites over weekly for the Sunday games (Go Broncos!) Besides being great at getting her clients on dates, she’s also known for her cooking and entertaining skills.
Isabel, Scouting Manager
"Crafter Extraoirdinaire"
In addition to leading VIDA’s dedicated team of Scouts, Isabel also works hand-in-hand with the Matchmakers to ensure client accounts run smoothly behind the scenes. She loves being part of a team of people working hard to find clients the love of their lives. In her spare time, she loves reading crime and fantasy novels. An avid Harry Potter fan, Isabel also enjoys listening to podcasts and doing arts & crafts projects.
Sabine, Stylist & Matchmaker
"Bean"
Sabine has been a professional stylist since receiving her Bachelor’s in Design in 2012. Since then, she’s developed her own line of accessories, worked for a major fashion label making bespoke clothing, and even did a stint in the wardrobe department on a Netflix production. Sabine has also styled numerous photo and video shoots, and likes to make short films in her spare time. An avid sewer, she makes many of her own clothes and brings a unique understanding of how clothes fit to her styling endeavors. She loves meeting VIDA clients from all over the world, and believes understanding what makes someone tick is the foundation for helping them find their ideal partner. In her spare time, she likes to draw, listen to podcasts, stay active and cook tasty vegetarian food.
Loren, Stylist
"The 4-Part Harmonizer"
Loren has been in the beauty industry since her college days, when she started styling other dorm residents from head-to-toe for campus events. She decided to pursue a cosmetology license, learning all about color theory and how to dress different body types. She got her professional start working for L’Oreal, and has since worked as a licensed cosmetologist at a variety of spas, salons, schools and trade shows. Her experience doing custom alterations gives her valuable insight into how clothes fit, and she also has her own image consulting business called Hey, Good Lookin’ where she specializes in styling professional performance groups. It’s a calling that’s close to her heart – she’s been a Barbershop singer since she was 13, and has competed internationally.
Ellie, Matchmaker & Photo Department Manager
"The Natural Empath"
Ellie is a veteran matchmaker who always makes sure everything goes exceedingly well for her clients, and also manages VIDA’s team of photo analysts and retouching experts. She is kind, caring, and empathetic, a result of the exciting life she once led while living in a very remote village in Mexico and learning about the realities that others face. Her background is in public health and social services. Besides helping her clients find their ideal dates, she’s busy being an awesome mom.
Ioana, Matchmaking Support Lead
"The Introverted Extrovert"
Prior to coming on board as a matchmaker, Ioana worked at a recruitment company. Networking with hundreds of people from all over the world gave her invaluable experience, and now she’s a natural at truly connecting with clients and understanding what they’re seeking. She describes herself as a “walking/talking contradiction” – an energetic extrovert who enjoys being alone in remote and quiet places, and that balance helps her relate to just about any personality type.
Olivia, Matchmaker & Matchmaker Mentor
"The Social Media Guru"
Olivia has a professional background in social media marketing, and at one point ran her own company helping small businesses market themselves effectively. She also has a degree in fashion merchandising and loves doing anything with a creative bent, especially graphic design. In addition to training all new matchmakers, and supporting all of VIDA’s clients she gets to work with, Olivia is devoted to helping her fellow LGBTQ+ clients, who share this important aspect of their lives with VIDA. She is experienced with non-traditional relationship structures and active within her LGBTQ+ community. In her spare time, she practices yoga daily and hangs out with her cat, Ella.
Kala, Matchmaker
"The Modern Day Hippie"
With a degree in psychology and a passion for understanding how it applies to dating, Kala is a natural matchmaker! She loves talking to clients all over the world, getting to know them and then helping them identify what’s most important to them in a relationship. And, of course, finding that someone special… Kala also runs a soy candle business and helps educate people about the need for non-toxic products in their homes. In her spare time, she hangs out with her son as much as she can, practices yoga and meditation, and collects crystals and stones that help with healing and grounding.
Francesca, Matchmaker
"The Psychology Fan"
Francesca has always been interested in relationships and what drives attraction, so it’s no surprise her educational background is in psychology and sociology. An experienced project & people manager, Francesca was drawn to VIDA because she wanted more creative work. She absolutely loves getting to know clients from all over the world, and learning what motivates them in life, and what they’re seeking in a perfect match! In her free time, she loves going to live music shows and exploring art galleries, and she has traveled and lived all over the world.
Briona, Matchmaker
"Bee"
Briona is a sales/customer service veteran, having previously worked in the insurance industry where she managed a team of agents. She also worked in marketing, where she excelled at building relationships with people. That’s her favorite aspect of matchmaking, and she loves knowing she’s a part of each client’s journey to finding their perfect match. Outside the virtual office, Briona loves spending time with her family outdoors, going for walks or hikes and ATV’ing. And Charlie, her adorable Boston Terrier, is never far from her side.
Joyce, Matchmaker
"The Connector"
A seasoned customer service and sales rep, Joyce is a pro at connecting with clients. She’s fascinated by the search for love, and her ability to “get” people helps her zero in on the perfect match! Growing up, Joyce always dreamed of being a lawyer – which is why she says she’s slightly addicted to watching true crime shows now. She also loves spending time with all her cousins and dancing.
Tara, Matchmaker
"The Performer"
With over a decade of customer service experience, Tara is adept at engaging with clients and making them feel comfortable during the interview process – which is an essential component of finding their perfect matches! A natural people person, her life’s passion is performing. After getting a degree in drama & music, she’s worked as a professional actor and singer in musical theatre, film, and television. Tara also calls herself a human Shazam app – if you hum her a few bars of a song, she can identify it for you.
Shyne, Matchmaker
"The Mindful One"
Shyne is dedicated to living a life of purpose, which is one of the reasons she left the intellectual property industry to follow her heart and pay forward the gratefulness that she has. She now volunteers for a Syrian mission where she lives, and has traveled to over 30 countries. Her global perspective combined with years of account management experience means she’s adept at helping clients navigate the dating scene wherever they happen to live. In her free time, she enjoys running and hiking, and has recently gotten into aerial yoga.
Tanya, Matchmaker
"The Art Lover"
With over 15 years of account management experience in advertising, PR and marketing, Tanya excels at providing a high level of service to clients while coordinating the search for their perfect matches. She loves playing a small part in someone’s “happily ever after!” When she’s not working, she spends as much time as she can with her family, making happy memories. Her other passion in life is art, as she has a deep appreciation for all beautiful things.
Kirsty, Matchmaker
"The One Who Loves Green"
Kirsty’s experience handling catering and events at hotels makes her a pro at connecting with people from all over the world. She quickly adjusts to any personality type and provides excellent customer service. Kirsty loves helping people find their potential life partner, and knowing she’s contributing to their happiness! A film and documentary enthusiast, Kirsty also has a journalism degree and once worked for a TV station. She’s currently obsessed with polymer clay crafts, and hopes to open an online business soon.
MJ, Matchmaker
"Zendaya's Twin"
With her background in communications research, MJ excels at maintaining a good relationship with her clients and using all the available data to help them connect with their ideal matches. When she’s not working her matchmaking magic, she enjoys writing, sports, hanging out with her cats and going to church twice a week. Her friends often tell her she looks like Zendaya in the Spiderman movies, which is how she got the nickname “MJ”.
Grace, Matchmaker
"The Happy One"
A veteran online dater herself, Grace met her soulmate on PlentyOfFish and loves that she now helps other people find theirs! She has a background in luxury travel sales, and also co-managed a travel company. Her life’s passion is bringing value to people’s lives, and her positive, outgoing personality is infectious. She truly enjoys learning about the journey that brought each client to VIDA, and helping them with the most important search of their lives.
Charlotte, Matchmaker
"The Creative One"
Charlotte has an affinity for matchmaking, having successfully played Cupid for a number of her friends. Clients love her empathy and motivation, and she loves helping them find matches with true long-term compatibility! Apart from matchmaking, she’s also an online entrepreneur who runs a small jewelry business. She met her husband while abroad in China, and she now speaks Chinese at an intermediate level. Charlotte studied photography and journalism while in college, and she still enjoys both taking pictures and creative writing.
Shania, Matchmaker
"The Negotiator"
A gifted communicator, Shania previously worked in supply negotiations for a large retail company. She's also a romantic at heart, and loves bringing people together to experience a true and genuine connection. With a degree in Human Sciences, Shania has always been fascinated by all aspects of human behavior – especially what makes us fall in love! That interest prompted her to pursue a career in matchmaking. In her spare time, she enjoys hanging out at the beach, hiking with her family, and watching films.
Kariz, Matchmaker
"The Expert Debater"
An aspiring lawyer, Kariz has a degree in international business economics & diplomacy. VIDA’s focus on work/life balance drew her to the company, and she can often be found studying for the bar exam in between helping clients find their best matches. Her dedication and work ethic brings about amazing results for clients! An expert at multitasking, Kariz has worked in the legal and compliance departments of multinational banks, and was also an associate publishing specialist at Thomson Reuters. In her spare time, she enjoys dancing, swimming, learning languages and hanging out with her partner and their dog and cats.
MacKenzie, Matchmaking Advisor
"The Relationship Coach"
MacKenzie brings a wealth of matchmaking experience to the VIDA team, having worked in the industry for over 15 years at some of the most exclusive agencies in the country. She’s also a life and relationship coach, helping people recover from breakups and divorce, ease the pain of heavy emotions, and build self worth and clarity for the future. MacKenzie loves to hike, take Barre class, shop and read. She’s read countless books on relationships, and loves that she helps VIDA’s clients find true connections with others.
Adam, Matchmaking Advisor
"The Health Nut"
With over a decade of sales and consulting experience, Adam is adept at connecting with potential clients and guiding them through the matchmaking process. Everything he does both professionally and personally revolves around the pursuit of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health. He loves that VIDA gives him the opportunity to help improve people’s quality of life, and enjoys working with a team that aligns with his greatest values.
Jess, Matchmaking Advisor
"The Musician"
With a background in account management, Jess absolutely thrives on talking to new people and helping them navigate the matchmaking process. She’s also a professional musician and loves the process of creative expression. In her spare time, she enjoys attempting to grow her own food in her garden and she’s very focused on her spiritual growth & development.
Carolyn, Matchmaking Advisor
"The Motivator"
Carolyn has over ten years of experience as a sales consultant and professional matchmaker, and loves helping her clients achieve success in their personal lives. She’s passionate about making a positive impact and finds it rewarding to assist VIDA clients with this potentially life-changing process! Carolyn has a zest for life and enjoys hiking, yoga, dance, theatre, photography and travel.
Dan, Matchmaking Advisor
"The Grounded One"
With over a decade of experience in corporate recruitment, Dan is a pro at connecting with people. His empathetic conversational style instantly puts people at ease, and gives him valuable insight into what brought them to VIDA and how to make the service successful for them. In his free time, Dan is heavily involved in the local music scene. He’s been recording music for the last ten years, both for TV shows and for albums with his band. A big fan of daily meditation, he says it keeps him grounded and stress free.
Simeon, Photo Editor Team Lead
"The Natural Image Expert"
Simeon is a freelance photographer and image expert with over 5 years of experience editing and retouching photos professionally. He helps ensure VIDA’s clients look their best online while still looking authentic and natural. When he’s not retouching photos, he’s an avid martial arts enthusiast. Not only does he have a black belt, he also judges competitions and teaches karate and self defense.
Oleg, Photo Analyst & Editor
"The One Who Takes Portraits"
One of Oleg’s true passions is photo editing and portrait photography, which he has done as a freelancer for over 4 years. After working with hundreds of clients, he is now an integral part of VIDA’s Photo Team. Oleg loves hiking, snowboarding and downhill biking in the mountains near his home.
Daria, Photo Analyst
"The Designer"
Daria has a background in digital design, most recently creating book covers for contemporary romance novels. She’s an accomplished freelancer, and loves the freedom working remotely gives her to travel the world. She also knows the importance of a strong photo lineup – she met her husband online! Her ability to combine analytical thinking with a creative eye helps ensure clients look their very best online.
Alberto, Lead Dating Coach
"The Life Hacker"
A seasoned expert at helping singles portray themselves online in an attractive and genuine way, Alberto is an experienced dating coach. He’s on hand to help clients achieve their relationship goals and successfully navigate all kinds of “offline” situations, from first dates to text messaging and more. Alberto is also an online dating expert, having previously been in charge of VIDA’s Message Research & Development team. He’s adept at analyzing data and trends to make sure VIDA always takes the best approach for each client. In his free time, he enjoys playing the guitar and the drums, hitting the gym, and channeling his inner Bobby Flay in the kitchen.
Andie, Content Manager
"The Chicken Whisperer"
Andie is a published author and award-winning photographer who works her incredible writing magic across all of VIDA’s platforms. A former magazine writer and editor with a degree in Journalism, she has been a freelance writer and photographer for over 20 years. She lives on a hobby farm with her husband, and documents all the shenanigans on her blog. A passionate writer with an appreciation for the freedom to spend time with her family, she loves working for VIDA and knowing that something she writes might just help two people make a special connection.
Jarred, Writing Department Manager
"The Scavenger Hunter"
One of VIDA’s veteran Dating Specialists, Jarred now manages the entire writing team and truly loves helping people meet their ideal partners. He is passionate about his family and traveling, and draws on his journeys throughout Europe, the US, and Puerto Rico to make the messages and profiles he writes especially vivid. His talent for recalling random facts – from music to movies to books – also comes in handy. He often jokes that IMDB has to check with him when its employees are arguing over trivia, and he’s been an avid participant in the World’s Largest Scavenger Hunt for three years in a row – and even has a tattoo to prove it.
Alexander, Profile Editor & Writing Team Lead
"The Intrepid Explorer"
As a Team Lead and Editor, Alexander works hand-in-hand with each Profile Writer, ensuring that every profile captures the essence of the client in an attractive, genuine and compelling way. A photographer by trade, he specializes in astro-photography and the Aurora Borealis. He’s logged more than 1000 hours underneath the Arctic skies since he was 16, camera in hand.
Cam, Dating Specialist Team Lead
"The Unabashed Eccentric"
Cam has a degree in English and a background in writing and editing, which they put to good use writing witty messages on behalf of VIDA’s clients. They love knowing they’re laying the groundwork for people to create meaningful connections offline. In their free time, Cam enjoys reading literature (the more pretentious the better), playing games, watching horror movies, and communing with the family of raccoons living behind their house.
Andrew, Dating Specialist & Tinder Expert
"The Musician"
Andrew combines expert skills in the areas of writing, sales, and dating dynamics to craft witty and engaging messages that get results. As a talented musician and songwriter, he certainly knows how to use the written word to get people swooning. He's also spent over a decade honing the art of persuasion as a sales professional, and several years observing countless bar pickup attempts while managing a popular nightclub. When handling back-and-forth messaging and setting up dates for his clients, his near-encyclopedic knowledge of film, music, international cuisine, and literature also comes in handy.
Ben, Dating Specialist
"The London Novelist"
Ben is a professional writer who is editing his first book. He loves the freedom of working remotely, and writing messages for clients all over the world. When he’s not helping people connect with their soulmates, he enjoys all kinds of literature and anything related to the Beatles. A dedicated superfan, he’s played the very same piano that was used to record ‘A Day In The Life.’ His lifelong dream is to see his novel displayed in his favorite bookshop.
Bree, Dating Specialist
"Legs"
At 5'11', it’s no surprise what inspired Bree's nickname. A veteran online dater herself, she met her fiance on Tinder and has helped many friends with dating profiles and messages as well. Bree's clients now benefit from both her expertise and her creative writing skills. When she’s not hard at work playing Cupid, she enjoys making her own journals from scratch to use and sell, and living an active lifestyle.
Gabriela, Dating Specialist
"The Composer"
A published writer with a degree in English & Psychology, Gabriela enjoys meeting people from all different walks of life. Previously a tutor for clients ages 2 to 60, she learned how to hone her approach to a variety of audiences, and she brings that skill set to the online dating messages she crafts. In her spare time, Gabriela enjoys composing music, cooking, baking and playing video games. She’s also an animal lover, and once cared for an injured owl until it could be released back into the wild.
Ed, Dating Specialist
"The Entrepreneur"
An accomplished writer who has successfully built three businesses from scratch, Ed has spent years honing the craft of writing with a specific audience in mind. Ed uses his expertise in creating compelling copy to craft messages on behalf of VIDA clients that matches can’t wait to respond to! In his spare time, he loves spending time with his wife and kids, skiing in the Alps and continuing his quest to find the perfect spaghetti carbonara.
Saren, Dating Specialist
"The Wilderness Fanatic"
A skilled copywriter, Saren absolutely loves stepping into each client’s shoes and portraying the best version of themselves. Over the years she’s had a variety of jobs that honed her communication skills with a diverse spectrum of people, from bartending to teaching life skills and celebrity tutoring. She speaks and reads Mandarin, plays dodgeball competitively, and considers herself a MarioKart pro. When she’s not working, she’s likely seeking out the best craft beer in town or spending as much time as she can exploring the great outdoors.
Kalen, Dating Specialist
"The Anthropologist"
Currently finishing a degree in cultural anthropology, Kalen has always loved digging for hidden perspectives and understanding how people respond to different situations. She also has a voracious appetite for conversation, and her insights into each client’s personality help her write effective dating messages. Outside of writing, Kalen is an avid martial artist and has competed in taekwondo and naginata at a national level. A lifelong learner, she was once featured on the Discovery Channel for helping invent a gadget that measures water usage and promotes sustainability.
Gabe, Dating Specialist
"The Musical Writer"
A life-long writer, Gabe loves intellectualizing and over-analyzing everything from profound literature to bad movies. He also loves music! The thesis for his English degree focused on digital media and hypertext as forms of literature, and he also writes, records and produces indie-pop music (check it out on his Soundcloud). In addition to freelance writing, he’s also an aspiring video-essayist and twitch-streamer.
Jack, Dating Specialist
"The One With The Memoir"
A published author, Jack’s first book was a memoir documenting his struggles in successfully overcoming a debilitating case of OCD and life-threatening drug addiction when he was twenty-two. He now volunteers as a sponsor for young men trying to get sober, and finds himself dispensing plenty of dating advice in that role. He’s quite proud he was able to convince a woman much better looking than him to be his wife, and he spends as much time as he can with her and their daughter. In his free time, he enjoys comedy and even pursued a career in stand-up for a few years.
James, Dating Specialist
"The Creative Linguist"
Adept at all kinds of writing, James especially enjoys fiction. He was a contributing writer for the science beat of a local paper, and currently freelances for a travel website. James speaks several languages, and several years of being a mixologist and interacting with bar patrons helped hone his dry sense of humor. Matches love the creative, funny messages he sends on behalf of VIDA’s clients, and he loves knowing he’s helping people make meaningful connections. When he’s not writing, James enjoys hanging out with his dog, reading, practicing yoga, and spending as much time outside as possible.
Josh, Dating Specialist
"The Rock Star"
Josh started playing guitar when he was 12, and eventually formed a rock band, releasing an album and touring around the world for 8 years living the rock star dream. His writing style is influenced by all the people he met along the way, and his adventures have given him insight into what he calls “the human connection.” He loves helping people from all different backgrounds find happiness! Josh also has over 4 years of experience in the sales industry, and the training he received helps him craft his messages in a very compelling and relatable way. In his spare time, Josh is very active in his community – pitching in for environmental clean up and outreach projects. He’s also an animal lover who always seems to find himself getting adopted by cats.
Michelle, Profile Editor
"The Active Mama"
An experienced freelancer, Michelle is adept at writing & editing profiles that highlight each client’s most intriguing traits in a conversational way that draws the reader in. When she’s not helping clients present their “best” selves online, she enjoys yoga, hitting the gym, and running trails. She’s seen just enough of the world to know she needs to see more. In her future, she sees lots more travel, along with writing her first novel or children's book.
Liana, Profile Writer
"The Social Justice Warrior"
Liana has a background in music, therapy, and education. With two degrees in psychology, Liana’s an expert at instantly “getting” what makes people tick, and turning those insights into compelling profiles for VIDA’s clients. They specialize in writing for queer, kinky, and open/polyamorous clients, reflecting their personal and professional interests. When Liana isn’t writing, this classically trained pianist enjoys rock climbing, making jewelry, volunteerism, working as a musician and therapist, and watching The Princess Bride (which they’ve seen at least 17,209 times).
Carina, Profile Writer
"The Theatrical Clown"
Carina brings a lot of creative energy to the VIDA writing team. She’s currently writing a children’s novel, taught English classes overseas and has a Master’s in theater with a specialization in theatrical clowning (which is a real thing, she swears!) She loves knowing that she’s helping two people find happiness with each other, and is adept at showcasing each client in a way that’s both authentic and compelling.
Teresa, Profile Writer
"The Aspiring Author"
With a background in English & Art History, Teresa enjoys writing fiction – especially short stories. She has always sought out opportunities to work with a wide range of people, from being a deckhand to guiding food tours and teaching piano. Her love of character development makes her a perfect profile writer – she truly enjoys learning about each client and capturing their personality in an attractive and engaging way. In her spare time, she enjoys watching movies with her boyfriend, reading, playing the piano and learning to play the cornet.
Laura, Profile Writer
"The Wandering Writer"
A veteran professional freelancer and project manager with a Master’s in writing, Laura is the go-to source of creative inspiration for friends & family who need help with birthday cards, apology letters, love letters, war declarations, eulogies etc. – all the good stuff. She excels at capturing each client’s “spark” in an authentic way in their profile, and genuinely loves learning each person’s story. She travels whenever she can and has made it a point to never, ever be home on her birthday.
Alysha, Profile Writer
"The Aspiring Baker"
A journalist by trade, Alysha studied in London and is passionate about connecting with people from all walks of life. She brings her love of networking, interviewing & writing about London’s culture and arts events to the table while creating profiles for VIDA’s clients. She enjoys selecting all the details that make our clients shine while capturing their true personality. When she’s not writing, you can find her hiking, practicing Pilates and at a live music event. An aspiring baker, she’s perfected a brownie recipe and hopes to one day share it with the world by opening her own small bakery.
Andre, Profile Writer
"The Hip-Hop Artist"
A freelancer who’s been interested in books and creative writing since he was in elementary school, Andre now channels his creativity into crafting engaging and compelling dating profiles for VIDA’s clients. He loves learning their stories and sharing them in an authentic and attractive way! In his free time, he says he divides his time between writing books and writing hooks for his hip-hop collective, and truly enjoys spending time in the music studio. He also thoroughly enjoyed swimming – until his hairdresser banned the activity to let his locs develop.
Clester, Onboarding Coordinator
"The Logistics Queen"
Having been with VIDA Select for almost a decade, Clester excels at welcoming new clients and assembling their Dream Team – the Customer Success Manager, Matchmaker and Writer who best fit their personality, style and relationship goals. She loves knowing she plays a part in helping clients find that special someone! She’s also a busy mom, and has started to think that even just going to the grocery store feels like a vacation. In her rare moments of free time, she indulges her CoC and Candy Crush addiction.
Kim, HR Team Lead
"The Mountaineer"
Kim brings over 5 years of experience as an HR Manager to VIDA’s team, and she is passionate about helping companies evolve. Having worked with a BPO that had global partners in the US and India, she’s a pro at streamlining communications and uniting people with diverse nationalities and personalities in pursuit of a common goal. An avid mountaineer, Kim loves hiking and climbing tropical mountains in her free time and even named her son after one of her favorite mountains.
Judy, HR Recruitment Associate
"The Awesome Networker"
With over 7 years of HR recruitment and selection experience in several different industries, Judy loves scouring the world for the very best people to join the VIDA team. In her spare time, she’s an avid reader and loves spending time with her four dogs.
Grace, HR Recruitment Associate
"The Natural Helper"
Grace brings over 9 years of experience in recruitment and operations management, and is a natural when it comes to identifying highly qualified candidates. Her favorite thing about VIDA is helping both job seekers and people looking for serious relationships, and the fact that skipping the commute gives her more time to spend with her 3 kids.
Alphonse, HR Recruitment Associate
"The Fonzy 2.0"
An HR practitioner for over a decade, Fonzy has experience in account management and recruitment across many different industries. Before scouting world-class talent for VIDA, he handled the recruitment activities for a multinational advertising company. He’s also a former actor, with a few commercials and small roles to his credit. These days he focuses on recruiting and also does hosting event management on the side.
Mikhail, HR Recruitment Associate
"The Cheerful Optimist"
Mikhail has always loved everything about travel – meeting new people, tasting new food and learning about new cultures. It’s no wonder he was drawn to recruiting! Mikhail brings over 7 years of recruitment experience to the VIDA team, and he loves scouring the internet looking for incredible talent from around the world. He describes himself as a funny guy with a positive outlook in life, which is the reason he’s always happy and content.
Fredy, Business Intelligence Developer
"The Techy One"
Fredy currently manages VIDA’s extensive database and innovative reporting system. He works alongside other analysts to make sure VIDA continues to be one of the most technologically advanced matchmaking services in the industry. When he’s not knee deep in data, he’s likely to be spending time with his daughters, enjoying a craft beer with friends, or traveling with his family.
Abhi, IT Project Manager
"The Big Picture Guy"
Abhi brings a wealth of IT experience to VIDA, having previously worked for companies like IBM, AT&T, UPS and Emirates NBD. Working for such huge multinational corporations has given him valuable insight into how a variety of organizations think, interact, coordinate, collaborate and deliver products, making him an ideal project manager for VIDA’s rapidly expanding IT department. He loves knowing his role helps people make meaningful connections using the latest technology. In his spare time, Abhijeet is an avid reader and enjoys traveling whenever he can.
Imman, IT Developer & Support Specialist
"The Morning Person"
An experienced software development and application support engineer, Imman loves VIDA’s mission of bringing together people who may otherwise have never crossed paths. He’s busy behind the scenes keeping all of VIDA’s proprietary tech running smoothing, including troubleshooting, server management and android app support. He loves to travel and spends as much time as he possibly can at the beach. Unlike many in the IT industry, he’s 100% a morning person and loves watching the sunrise with a cup of hot chocolate in hand.
Romeo, IT Developer & Support Specialist
"The Tech Enthusiast"
Romeo brings over 5 years of IT experience to VIDA’s tech team, and has a background in Windows & Linux administration. He loves the opportunity to support VIDA’s team and clients, and ensure they are using the best technology possible. In his free time, he loves reading up on all the latest tech news, playing games with his sons and watching movies, and hopes someday to have a hobby farm.
Jake, IT Support Specialist
"The Outdoorsy Tech Guy"
A seasoned veteran in the IT Helpdesk industry, Jake specializes in troubleshooting all kinds of tech issues and helps keep all of VIDA’s team members and clients communicating effectively. As much as he loves technology, he jumps at the chance to head into nature for a hike or a swim. Jake travels whenever he can, and enjoys meeting new people.
Cat, Chief Operating Officer
"VIDA's OG"
Cat’s passion for matchmaking and connecting people via modern dating outlets has kept her at VIDA since 2010. A matchmaker for years, she also managed the matchmaking team before becoming VIDA’s General Manager, and now the COO. Cat excels at building and shaping VIDA’s core teams, and searches far and wide to find the best people to manage them. She’s also lived all over the world, which gives her a unique understanding of dating in different areas. Cat is passionate about raising her three bilingual children, living a healthy and natural lifestyle and exploring the outdoors locally and across the globe.
Meagan, Director Of Operations
"Jack Of All Trades"
With a Master’s in organizational leadership, Meagan leads and inspires VIDA’s entire team. A true dating expert, she ensures VIDA stays on the forefront of matchmaking, using the best sites, apps, and technology for VIDA’s clients. She’s dedicated to helping men and women find their ‘someone special,’ and especially enjoys keeping up with clients after they have found The One through VIDA.
Maithreyi, HR Director
"The People Person"
With an MBA in Human Resources and 15 years of corporate experience, Maithreyi is a valuable asset to VIDA’s team. She loves being connected to co-workers all over the world who are dedicated to the common goal of helping people find love. Maithreyi speaks 6 different languages, and enjoys DIY interior decorating projects, dancing, and reading fantasy fiction. An avid traveler, she looks forward to her yearly beach vacation with her family.
Stacy, Matchmaking Manager
"The Hyper-Communicator"
Armed with a bright social personality and a cheerful disposition, Stacy spends her days ensuring our clients are getting the most out of our service. She supports the Matchmaking team, and focuses on strategy and results. With her natural talent for “getting” people and her extensive background in sales and marketing, Stacy spent years as a Matchmaker before moving into a management position. In her spare time, she helps out her husband with his small business, runs around minding her beloved kiddos and keeps the household going. She also somehow finds time to volunteer for Meals on Wheels and keep up with a large group of friends, whom she sees regularly and invites over weekly for the Sunday games (Go Broncos!) Besides being great at getting her clients on dates, she’s also known for her cooking and entertaining skills.
A Note From VIDA Select’s Founder…
Hey, I’m Scott Valdez, Founder of VIDA Select.
It may be hard to believe that not long ago, many people thought meeting people online was kinda weird.
But times have changed…
These days, people routinely make new connections on social media sites. Two-thirds of US singles regularly use dating apps to expand their options, and thousands of intelligent daters are now turning to the experts for help finding their ideal match.
As the creator of VIDA Select, I’ve had the fortune of being featured on CNN, The Today Show, Fox News, and many other media giants. Although many were initially skeptical of my unconventional approach to matchmaking, they ultimately agreed VIDA Select was remarkably effective for finding lasting connections.
But here’s what surprises most reporters and potential customers alike:

I never intended to create a modern matchmaking firm that would help over 5000 clients find their perfect matches.
After all, before starting VIDA Select, I was just an overworked sales and marketing manager searching for love… However, putting in 70+ hour work weeks at an ambitious startup wasn’t exactly conducive to meeting my ideal match.
Hanging out in bars didn’t yield many great prospects, my friends and coworkers only seemed to introduce me to the wrong types, and waiting for the universe to manifest my ideal woman was clearly just a pipe dream.
However, serendipity did seem to intervene when I discovered an ad for a prominent matchmaking service in the back of an in-flight magazine. Intrigued by the possibility of being set up with carefully-selected matches, I coughed up several thousand dollars—nearly my entire year-end bonus. Six months went by and I was only sent on a handful of blind dates with women who didn’t meet my expectations.
The general idea of matchmaking did make sense to me, and they gave me a few valuable dating insights. However, in the end they didn’t seem to have any matches in their rolodex that really fit my criteria... I licked my wounds and shifted my search elsewhere...
Dating sites like Match, POF, and OkCupid were steadily growing in popularity. Their increasing numbers meant I’d have access to more single women than a traditional matchmaker could dream of recruiting.
But like most guys, I was never taught how to optimally present myself online in a dating context… I didn’t know the right messages to send… and I was clueless which steps to take to entice women to meet up in person.
In fact, I vividly recall the first night I set up my POF account.
After uploading a couple of photos and jotting down a few words in my profile, I proceeded to spend an entire evening writing personalized messages to 47 women who were just my type.
The next morning, I eagerly climbed out of bed to see which women were interested. You can imagine my disappointment when I logged in to find that I hadn’t received a single response. I checked a few more times throughout the day before crawling back into bed frustrated and bewildered.
I knew lots of people had to be meeting online and I was determined to find success for myself. I spent hundreds of hours on dating sites and created dozens of spreadsheets. I spent the next 6 months meticulously testing everything to discover what worked and what didn’t.
And after rigorous testing, I finally started getting dates with women I really enjoyed meeting, rather than settling for those who didn’t quite check all the boxes. But between my heavy workload at my day job and running rigorous testing at night on my dating profile, I didn’t have enough time to go out with as many of my matches.
I was just too swamped.
Dating became my 2nd full-time job... and the pay was crappy! :p
Then I had a crazy idea… Why couldn’t a highly-skilled matchmaker just do this for me?
I would get the best of both worlds and would surely find my dream girl.
After placing several ads for a unique position, I found Mike, a gifted writer with a knack for online dating. I hired him to conduct the search for my perfect match.
And with his help—along with my meticulous attention to detail—we eventually cracked the code.
We discovered how to:
Create a profile that high-quality women can't resist.
Appear twice as attractive in your photo lineup.
Capture the attention of your most compatible matches from the very first message.
Keep your matches engaged, make her laugh, and have her eagerly awaiting your next message.
Ask her out in such a compelling way that “Yes” seems like the only answer that makes sense.
As a result, I started meeting highly-compatible women each week like clockwork. Mike even introduced me to a woman I liked so much that I ended my search to start a relationship.
One night, while hanging out with my buddies, one of them asked how I had met her. With a few beers in me, I spilled my secret. They all laughed at first and said I must be joking. I assured them I wasn’t. Then one of them asked, “Do you think your guy could find me a girl like yours too?”
They had all dabbled with dating apps and had experienced the same lack of results most guys are all too familiar with. Only then did I realize how my crazy little idea could really help thousands of men (and women!) meet their match.
That’s why...
In 2009, I Founded VIDA Select.
It's Like Having An Army Of Dating Experts Working Around The Clock For You.
VIDA Select is the first company to offer a team of dating specialists with a wealth of expertise and thousands of hours of experience. We combine forces to introduce you to highly-compatible women who are excited to meet you, too.
We’ve tested tens of thousands of online dating profiles and messages. And we know exactly what works to match you with someone we know you’ll enjoy spending time with!
There’s no other dating service out there that can do this for you...
Ready To Meet Your Perfect Match? Here's What To Do Next…
If you're looking to date women who check all your boxes—without dealing with all the usual hassles and frustrations of modern dating—it’s time to find out if we’re a good fit to work together.
If you qualify, we’ll be in contact with you soon to schedule a casual yet highly-confidential consultation with one of our dating specialists. There is no obligation to sign up and we will never pressure you into joining.